32-year-old man mocks 23-year-old sister's babysitting gig, she starts charging him her full rate for watching his kids

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  • A woman babysits her brother's two young kids while sitting on the couch.
  • [I'm] charging my brother for babysitting after he said "it's not a real job"

    My brother (32M) has two kids ages 4 and 6. I'm (23F) a full-time student who babysits on the side for money.
  • For the past year I've been watching his kids 2-3 times a week for FREE as a favor.
  • We're talking 4-5 hour stretches where I'm feeding them, playing with them, helping with homework, the whole thing.
  • Last week at family dinner my brother made a comment about how I need to "get a real job" instead of "playing with kids for money." He said babysitting isn't real work.
  • I was p ed. I've been giving him FREE childcare for a year and he's dismissing what I do as not real work?
  • I told him right there that I'm starting to charge him my regular rate - $20/hour.
  • The sister helps one of her nieces with her homework.
  • He laughed and said "You're not serious." I said I'm completely serious. If what I do isn't real work then he shouldn't need it, right?
  • He got mad and said family doesn't charge family. I said family also doesn't insult family's work.
  • If he doesn't value what I do enough to respect it, he can pay for it or find someone else.
  • He's refusing to pay and now my mom is mad at me for "causing drama" and "withholding help from family." She says I'm being petty.
  • But why should I provide free labor to someone who literally said its not real work?
  • That's over $400 worth of childcare I've been giving him monthly! TL;DR: Brother said babysitting isn't a real job, I've been watching his kids for free, now I'm charging him and family says I'm being petty.
  • The sister reads a book with her two nieces while babysitting them.
  • Zzyren If the mom is trying to guilt you for "withholding help. from family" then tell her that she should babysit for free!
  • Acanthaceaelcy717 Tell him you can't babysit for free anymore because you need to devote time to your real paying job. Your brother for taking advantage is a j of you and for insulting you.
  • Interesting_Disk... dude had the audacity to trash your work while you've been giving him hundreds of dollars in free childcare, now he can pay up or figure out his own situation

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